Tender Moment

Those that we love don`t have to be like us!

My Sons

Two of my favorite Passions, are my two boys, now men mind you. They are my stability, they are the loves of my life. They are working on finding their natural path, and it is scary at times but that's what life is truly about. Stepping into the F.E.A.R will always take you to a new hieght in your life. I LOVE KYLE AND STEPHEN YOU ARE THE BEST!

Possibilities

The difference between the impossible and the possible lies in a person's determination.

Make today be your day

Get ready to make a fresh start and leave the past behind you. it is never to late to make a fresh start. It's a good time for determining who and what is truly important and essential to you and then focusing all your energies there. Just realize that other people might not fully understand all your concerns and frustrations as much as you might hope and expect they would.

Please remember that putting expections on other people will only lead to dissappointment, therefore you must concentrate on what is best for you. Do not say to yourself, "Well, if I do this, what will people think?" You must ask yourself, "If I do this, what will I think of it and how will I feel about it?" It's like when people go on a date, before they even get ready for the date, they think to themselves, "I Wonder what "He/she" will think of me if I wear this?" You are supposed to say to yourself, "If I wear this outfit, how will "I" feel in it, will I be comfortable wearing this kind of eye shadow?" ECT

So in general, always put the "I" in the question you are aking instead of the "he/she/they!

Experience

You know the old saying it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all? Well it's true! With each relationship we learn more about ourselves and what we want. Try to remember that if you're feeling brokenhearted. It takes experience to grow!

Yourself at your Best

"The art of being yourself at your best is the art of unfolding your personality into the person you want to be...Be gentle with yourself, learn to love yourself, to forgive yourself, for only as we have the right attitude toward ourselves can we have the right attitude toward others."

Get what you Give

How many times, when dating the wrong person, have you thought, "I'm always giving, giving, giving but what do I get?" Or "I wish they would do (fill in the blank) for me?" If you've had a lifetime (or even one time) of dating the wrong person, my guess is a lot. The good news is, when you do find the right match, you'll get as much as you give. Now that's not to say that you're Love is guaranteed to be considerate or helpful around the house. What it means is that you'll be able to express your needs and get them met, as well as being open to what your partner needs.

When you're just not that into them - can be just as unfulfilling, because you're not participating in the relationship. A participatory relationship is one that shows promise. The same goes for your relationship with yourself. Get active about creating the life you want, and watch your energy and self-esteem increase tenfold!